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(September 21, 2020)--Younger people often have misguided opinions about those who are older. Common amongst these is that once you reach a certain age you lose interest in relationships. When this sudden drop in libido supposedly kicks in is a little vague: somewhere beyond 40 … maybe 50 … approaching retirement? Obviously, like so many stereotypes, the reality bears no resemblance to the wild rumors. Mature singles represent a huge demographic. In the USA alone, there are over 40 million over the age of 65, and sites like wantmatures adult dating soaring in popularity. Many of these seniors are divorced or widows/widowers, actively seeking new opportunities. If you fall into the category of older singles seeking love, here are your top five tips.

Embrace the possibilities of ‘silver surfing’

The most recommend activity by far is signing up for an appropriate dating site. There are so many of these to choose from. Generic websites match members according to the age group you specify you are most interested in when you join. Niche outlets will cater to a variety of options – as well as Wantmatures there are sites for Senior Jewish Singles, Senior Black People Meet, and numerous others along the same line. Here you can gain access to the profile descriptions and photographs of as many other site users as you care to browse through, choosing potential partners based on attraction and compatibility. And all from the comfort of your own home.

Make the most of social occasions

Guests invited to family get-togethers, such as weddings or anniversary parties, might be expected to behave in a certain way. The younger clientele probably assume they’re the ones who’ll be hogging the dancefloor and partying hard until closing time. This would be a great opportunity to buck that ‘trend.’ Rather than retire to the background, it’s never too late to bring out your dancing shoes and join in the fun. If other seniors are watching, they’ll be drawn to your verve and want to get to know you better.

Take out a membership at a leisure center

Keeping fit and healthy is a universal aspiration. Gyms are enjoyed by a cross-section of people, and retired seniors can take advantage of their increased leisure time by attending sessions during the daytime when they can access all the equipment without having to queue up. As well as being beneficial for their wellbeing, leisure centers represent a vibrant social arena. There are often cafeteria or lounge areas where you can interact with the other mature athletes. 

Join a social club

There are so many clubs out there, catering for a wide variety of people, but with many especially geared towards older members. Whatever your hobbies might be – everything from bowls to fishing, book groups to winetasting – there is every likelihood there will be a community sharing your passion, with hospitable members who hold regular meetings, and would welcome newcomers with open arms. Amongst these kindred spirits, there are bound to be several singles looking to combine romance with their interests. Going online is a terrific way of tracking down these gatherings, with many of them hosting Facebook groups you can join.

Plan an exciting holiday

They say that travel broadens the horizons. New adventures, spectacular scenery, and amorous travel companions also make the perfect combination for finding love. Opportunities for senior holidays are advertised regularly, giving mature singles the chance to join coach trips or cruises where they will find themselves surrounded by like-minded individuals. What better way to bond with someone romantically than the deck of an ocean-going liner, beneath the stars, cocktail-in-hand?