Written by Mary McCusker
“I didn’t really even think about people in prisons until I had a family member who ended up behind bars,” said one of the attendees at the Camden Diocesan Prison Ministry Conference, held at the Saint John Paul II Retreat Center in Vineland on Sept. 21.
Deacon Seigfried Presberry, director of the Prison Ministry Program in the Archdiocese of Baltimore, reinforced that sentiment in his keynote talk when he said, “You never know when the day might come when you get a phone call that one of your loved ones is facing incarceration.”
Deacon Presberry, a Baptist who converted to Catholicism and was ordained a permanent deacon, worked for years as a prison corrections officer, giving him perspectives both inside the prison as a staff member and outside as a prison ministry director.
He shared a story about a woman who came to him after being released in the middle of winter and did not even have a coat.
“And beyond that, when people are released, many of them don’t have anything else, either. No job, money, health insurance, housing, sometimes no family or friends — nothing. And you know the first place they go to when they’re out?” he asked. “To church. Right next to us in our pews, weak and weary and hopeless. Family members you see at Mass have incarcerated loved ones and are suffering, but they’re too afraid to express their pain because of the stigma that comes with that.”
Deacon Presberry noted that the state of New Jersey has roughly 39,000 individuals behind bars. Which means, he said, “We as a church must break free of the stigma of incarceration. The incarcerated and their loved ones look to us for comfort, for trust. And through accompaniment and solidarity, we must be missionary disciples to those returning to the church,” he said.
“Prison Ministry is an underappreciated ministry, and the wounded need us — whether they are current inmates, former inmates, or loved ones. They are crying out, and we need to listen,” he said.
Through Catholic Charities’ Prison Ministry, volunteers offer incarcerated men and women the chance to experience God’s redemptive grace and mercy through the sacraments, Bible studies, small-group sharing and more.
According to one longtime volunteer at the conference, “It’s a different kind of volunteerism. It’s challenging, and you don’t always get the ‘feel good’ feeling. But it is rewarding, and it is what we are called to do as Catholics. It’s right there in the Gospel.”
The annual conference was planned by Sister Mary Cronin, Catholic Charities’ Prison Ministry coordinator, who mobilizes volunteers to meet the corporal and spiritual needs of incarcerated men and women in Southern New Jersey’s correctional facilities.
Sister Mary Cronin spoke of the diocesan-wide underwear drive that took place last year. “I did not know if anyone would want to donate when we put out the word, but my office was filled with boxes of donations for months,” she laughed. “We even had shipments coming from out of state — one from as far as California.”
These donations were then given to Marsha Smith, who worked to distribute them to the men and women in the facilities, who were astonished that individuals wanted to donate these items to them, imprisoned strangers. Noted Smith, “Many of them have been walking around in the same pair of underwear for weeks, because that’s what can happen if they don’t have money or family who will bring them these items. How can we expect them to feel like dignified human beings without something so simple?”
To volunteer or learn more about Catholic Charities’ prison ministry, contact Sister Mary Cronin (Mary.Cronin@CamdenDiocese.org / 856-342-4106), or visit: www.CatholicCharitiesCamden.org/prison-ministry
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